The price of Dude-ness
First let me explain the term ‘Dude-ness.’
Dude is the guy who enters where there are a group of people and everyone looks at home and goes “hmm interesting”. Everyone wants to be around him, everyone complements him and just basically give small talk to fill in their shallow poser lives.
Dude-ness is basically what a Dude has.
There are two things that happen when a guy has Dude-ness. The general public will either love him, or hate him. And both those kind of people will swing around like a bisexual at an orgy. The reason they love him is because there’s a certain amount of respect of the guy for achieving the Dude-ness and they will hate him because 70 percent of the male populous have self esteem issues.
Now the 30 percent of the people who actually think you are cool and accept the dude-ness will never get close to you because they are so comfortable and secure with their lives that they don’t really bother with you. They think you are cool and its left at that. There’s the exception of close friends and stuff but other than that you are pretty much flying solo.
Here’s my point…
Individuality is one big shit storm. General public just cant accept the fact that you are different. I don’t like to follow standard norms of function, which leads bunch of judgment. As much as I hate it I have to accept it. I am different from the rest of the world, people are gonna have something to say about it. They just don’t understand individualism.
The price of Dude-ness is loneliness…
Cause only you can understand who you really are…
Dude is the guy who enters where there are a group of people and everyone looks at home and goes “hmm interesting”. Everyone wants to be around him, everyone complements him and just basically give small talk to fill in their shallow poser lives.
Dude-ness is basically what a Dude has.
There are two things that happen when a guy has Dude-ness. The general public will either love him, or hate him. And both those kind of people will swing around like a bisexual at an orgy. The reason they love him is because there’s a certain amount of respect of the guy for achieving the Dude-ness and they will hate him because 70 percent of the male populous have self esteem issues.
Now the 30 percent of the people who actually think you are cool and accept the dude-ness will never get close to you because they are so comfortable and secure with their lives that they don’t really bother with you. They think you are cool and its left at that. There’s the exception of close friends and stuff but other than that you are pretty much flying solo.
Here’s my point…
Individuality is one big shit storm. General public just cant accept the fact that you are different. I don’t like to follow standard norms of function, which leads bunch of judgment. As much as I hate it I have to accept it. I am different from the rest of the world, people are gonna have something to say about it. They just don’t understand individualism.
The price of Dude-ness is loneliness…
Cause only you can understand who you really are…
posted by Arroclint at 5:07 PM
13 comments:
I am such a dude man.
I'm assuming this dudeness can't be accquired, but then im also thinking lonliness and a rather high price to pay no...
lol...i hear ur pain!
and i understand.lol.
will post about dudette-ness, which is quite similar.straight from the heart it'll be.
nah!
:)
people fear what they cant understand.
Individuality is a concept rarely understood. The fear that youre different transforms into hatred and unacceptance. Look at some of the great thinkers of the world. They were loved by fellow thinkers but widely hated by the world for their thoughts.
Reminds me of the following quote: "I've started talking to myself. Its the only way I can be assured of intelligent conversation"
conman: true...
Karuna: dude-ness is a state of mind. i can live with lonliness, it beats being a sheep following the herd...
Khizzy: dudette, u should actually post one.... itll be cool to get the female perspective...
Big Man: i like the quote man. where the heck are u digging this stuff from?
lol...ive already done a few posts along those lines.
september2005 archives.
lol.. this post reeks of assumptions! I got blog-mauled the other day at Alice's blog for saying people "like us" were mature human beings for thinking homosexuality was no big deal.
3 cheers for the dudes.. and it so sucks when someone says 'Due-d' So much for bloody put up accents..
Howdy CC... ;)
khizzy: i should check it out...
cowlick: dude? what are u talking about? my post is not about homosexuality. its bout being cool. im confused here....
me: hip hip hurray!!!
yeah yeah.. i got that.. the example was about my experience with having an individual thought-process.. never mind
oh ok now it makes sense...
Man... now that's what I call music.... eeeeehhaaaaaaaa!
love this track man...
To quote from Lord of the Rings
"To bear a ring of power, is to be alone"
Lonliness is a price to pay...
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